A TRUE STORY OF STRUGGLE WITH MIND
It happens sometimes that what bad things happened in our life we cannot forget them they just stick in our mind. We try to keep ourselves busy but when we free it comes repeatedly. We have a life so everyday something happened some good or some bad so what should we do?
We cannot move from our house, we cannot change our place or can we? There is no place in the world where not all these things will happened. There are so many temporary solution of it like listen to music, and watch television, or keep sharing with your friends or keep involve with the things which gives you pleasure. However, these all are temporary solution with so many side effects. Because when a person come to know that you are depend upon him or her, he or she can blackmail you or manipulate you.
Our brain cannot differentiate between reality and imagination. Like for example every people saw dreams at night almost everyone. It is a dream but in actual nothing happens but reactions are same like you actually see a dream and sudden you wake up but then you realize it is a dream.it means our brain cannot differentiate between reality and imagination.
Therefore, if something which is your imagination, you consider it reality, and you are thinking about it. It means brain does his work he will not stop working. If you think that, there is nothing for me in this world life. Put question mark on it? It means everything is end or you think that everything is end in your life.
What you imagine is your dream and what is in actual its reality. Like if, a situation, which happened to 20 different peoples but everyone, has same reactions, so this will be reality. This thing will actually happened. However, if in that situation 20 peoples give different situation it means you are imagine this thing. This this is not existing. Then it means you are tense with your imagination.
We have many things in past which we cannot share with anyone we try to forget these things but we cannot because we do not have anyone to whom which we share anything. We feel alone somehow detached from people. We keep ourselves introvert. It happened because no one is with us because we are living on hope that my family take stand from myside, my friend will support me, anyone of them understand me. However, what we get no one can understand us and we are alone. In addition, in that condition tour best friend will be loneliness, and darkness. We try to move on but we cannot because our past puts heavy impact on our present and future and this will influence us a lot, which is, just broke our brain and heart. We will try to fight but we cannot, we try to cry but we cannot. This situation is very difficult very very difficult. This follows us in our whole life.
Then after sometime or some years this emotional pain which when you remember that happened at that time so all that feelings and sensations triggered. We do not know how to come out from the things we regret from these things. This memory is inside you, this emotional pain is inside you, the fear is increasing inside you that are why you are running from this memory.
Fight with your memory, because it is not someone else it is you and your memory. If you understand this, so your struggle ends. Like what is the function of your eyes it gives, you sight what is good and what is bad but eyes do not care about what is good and what is bad? Moreover, what brain does is what is stored inside you that will come in front of you.so what brain shows to you that none of brains matter. He is working as he works. Then why we fear from our memory if same things repeat itself so brain does not affects. What you see if not stored in brain it means our brain is not working properly. I share a story over here on struggle, which we do to delete our memories.
Once upon a time, a man found a cocoon of butterfly.one day a small hole appeared. He sat and watching it for hours. Cocoon struggle to force its body through that hole but suddenly he stop making efforts and feels like it was stuck.
The man who watching for long decides to help the butterfly. He took scissors and trimmed of the remaining cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily with swollen body and shriveled wings. The man was waiting that her wings are enlarge to support the butterfly. However, that does not happen the man did not understand that the restricting cocoon and the struggle needed by butterfly to get itself through small openings were GOD’S way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly in to its wings to prepare itself for once it was out of the cocoon. If the butterfly try to try again struggle by self so he can have a beautiful enlarged wings and can fly.
Our struggles in life develop our strengths. Without struggle, we never grow and never get stronger, so it is important for us to tackle challenges on our own, and not be relying on help from others.
